Rephael Cattan

  We are continuing in siman 11. We learned that the kabbalas Shabbos which takes place through hadlakas neiros does not affect the rest of the family members. However, the Chayei Adam clarifies that the candles and leichter (candelabra) become muktza even for those who have not yet accepted Shabbos.  The source for this halacha […]

We are continuing in siman 11. We left off with a question about amira l’yisroel, and whether a parent who has already accepted Shabbos through hadlakas neiros can ask a child to perform a melacha in the home. Although amira l’yisroel is muttar, the Pri Megadim raises the following question. There is an issur of

We are continuing in siman 11. The Chayei Adam seems to disregard a point made by the Shulchan Aruch. If a woman is making the bracha after lighting (as is our minhag), does the kabbalas Shabbos take place when she finishes lighting, or when she makes the bracha? The practical difference between these two options

  We are continuing in siman 11, discussing the bracha on the neiros. We learned that out of concern that by making the bracha on the neiros a woman accepts Shabbos, she does not make the bracha until after lighting the neiros.    We need to discuss whether a woman can make a tnai that

 We are beginning siman 11, where the Chayei Adam will discuss making the bracha. In general, we know that Chazal instituted that before one performs a mitzvah, they make a bracha. They instituted that the bracha should be made over le’asiyasan, that before the mitzvah is performed one should thank Hashem for the opportunity to

 We have finished siman 10, discussing different scenarios of where one lights. Today, we will discuss additional points related to the siman.  We learned that a person has a chiyuv hadlakah both in the makom achila (place they are eating) and the makom sheina (place they are sleeping). If one has the option of lighting

We are beginning siman 10. We have learned the background to the siman over the past few shiruim, and today we will begin it inside.    The Chayei Adam writes that one has a chiyuv to light in all rooms which they will be using over Shabbos. If there is a room which they do

  We are continuing with a background to siman 10. We learned that the chiyuv of hadlakas neiros is both a chovas habayis and chovas haguf, and that once one family member makes a bracha in the home, it covers other lights put on in the home as well, even by other family members. We

We are beginning siman 10, and we will begin with some background.   When Chazal instituted the mitzvah of hadlakas neiros, they gave it an interesting hybrid status. On the one hand, it is considered a chovas bayis, that the home have neiros lit in it, and on the other hand, it is a chovas

  We are continuing in siman 9. The Chayei Adam writes that a woman should be dressed for Shabbos when she lights Shabbos neiros. He will later qualify that it is more important to light on time than to wait until being fully dressed for Shabbos, as lighting too late is a question of an

 We are continuing in siman 9, discussing the halachos of hadlakas neiros. We learned that a woman who is blind is able to light and even make a bracha, provided she is able to gain something from the neiros. However, if there are already other neiros there, she should not make a bracha.  To explain,

  We are beginning siman 9. The Chayei Adam writes that although we have learned that the mitzvah of hadlakas neiros applies both to men and women, the woman has precedence over the mitzvah. In other words, if a husband and wife have a disagreement over who should light the neiros, even though it could

We are beginning siman 8, which begins the Chayei Adam’s discussion of hadlakas neiros. We learned that the halacha is one must beg for money if they cannot afford neiros. The Chayei Adam continues, and writes that it is more important to spend money on neiros over wine for kiddush, because they can make kiddush

 We are beginning siman 8, which begins the Chayei Adam’s discussion of hadlakas neiros. There are two reasons behind the halacha of hadlakas neiros.  The first is shalom bayis. If a home is dark, people will trip, get hurt, and get angry, and tear apart the simcha and shalom bayos which should exist. If so,

 We are beginning siman 7, which discusses the preparation of the home for Shabbos. The Chayei Adam writes that one should set their table and make the beds before accepting Shabbos. The Chayei Adam is referring primarily to the couches they would recline on when eating, but it applies to all beds in the house

We are continuing in siman 6, where the Chayei Adam is discussing that which is muttar and assur during bein hashmashos. We have learned that Chayei Adam holds amira l’achum is permitted, even on an issur deoraysa, provided there is a significant loss. However, if there is no significant loss, one may not perform amira

 We are continuing in siman 6. We left off with the Chayei Adam’s statement that one cannot separate challah during bein hashmashos, even though it would appear to be an issur derabanan and a significant need, which should be muttar bein hashmashos. Today, we will explain the Chayei Adam’s reasoning. The halacha is that, mideoraysa,

We are continuing in siman 6. We have touched on the ideas that the Chayei Adam will discuss; today we will learn them inside.   The Chayei Adam writes that dinei derabanan are not automatically permitted bein hashmashos. However, if one has a significant need, or it is for a mitzvah, it is muttar. The

We are continuing in siman 6. We have learned that during bein hashmashos, issurei derabanan are muttar for the purpose of a mitzvah or for a significant need. There are certain derabanans, such as hatmana and eruvei chatzeiros, which are muttar regardless. On the other hand, there are also issurei derabanan which are assur even