We are continuing in siman 4. We learned that kavod to parents includes, but is not limited to, feeding them, giving them to drink, helping them get dressed, and helping them go in and out. The Chayei Adam writes that, in addition to these examples of kavod, a child should serve their parents like a […]
1320 – Kibud Av v’Eim – (Klal 67 Siman 4-5) – Kavod B’Maaseh 2; Kavod B’Dibbur Read More »
We are beginning siman 4. The Chayei Adam will begin delineating some of the halachos of kibud av v’eim. One must keep in mind the internal attitudes and thoughts one must have while performing these actions, as we have discussed until now. The Chayei Adam writes that a person has a chiyuv to honor their
1319 – Kibud Av v’Eim – (Klal 67 Siman 4) – Kavod B’Maaseh Read More »
We have finished siman 3, where the Chayei Adam clarified that although the Gemara speaks about demonstrating kavod through speech and actions, one must also demonstrate kavod through attitude and thought. We learned that the Chayei Adam writes that a person has a chiyuv to perceive their parents as among the greatest of the generation.
1318 – Kibud Av v’Eim – (Klal 67 Siman 3) – Kavod as an Attitude – 5 – Attitude – 2 Read More »
We are beginning siman 3. The Chayei Adam will begin clarifying some of the halachos of kibbutz av v’eim, but still approaches the halachos of this siman from more of a mussar perspective. The Chayei Adam writes that not only is kavod demonstrated through actions and speech, but also through attitudes and thoughts. Regarding
1317 – Kibud Av v’Eim – (Klal 67 Siman 3) – Kavod as an Attitude – 4 – Attitude – 1 Read More »
We are beginning siman 2. The Chayei Adam addresses an argument used as an excuse by people to relieve themselves of the chiyuv kibud av v’eim. (He is not yet addressing the halachos.) The Chayei Adam writes that a person who makes the following false claim should have their mouth shut (paraphrase of Tehillim
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We are continuing siman 1. The Chayei Adam brings the Gemara which teaches us that there are three partners in the creation of man: Hashem, the mother, and the father. When a child respects their parents, Hashem considers it as though He “lives” there with them and has been respected as well. When a child
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We are beginning Klal 67, which discusses the halachos of kibud av v’eim. The Chayei Adam begins with a specific demonstration of kibud av v’eim, and then discusses a general hashkafic idea. The Chayei Adam writes that a person whose parent(s) are alive should strive to take care of their needs, as we are commanded
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We are beginning siman 18, which discusses testimony of a katan. We have a general halachic rule that eid echad ne’eiman b’isurim, the testimony of a single kosher witness is relied upon in cases of issur, such as kashrus. Nevertheless, the one witness must be a valid witness, which generally excludes a katan. There are
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We are continuing in our discussion of the halachos of tznius as they apply to a katan. Today, we will discuss singing. We will follow the approach of the Mishnah Berurah. Chazal teach us that kol b’isha ervah, a woman’s singing is considered ervah. Chazal’s use of the term ervah has two implications. First, in
1311 – Chinuch Katanim – (Klal 66) – Chinuch for Tznius 50 – Kol Isha 6 Read More »
We are continuing in our discussion of the halachos of yichud as they apply to a katan. We learned that one can be meikil for yichud if all of the katanim involved are under the age of bar or bas mitzvah. However, once one of the parties is over bar or bas mitzvah, it will
1310 – Chinuch Katanim – (Klal 66) – Chinuch for Tznius 49 – Yichud 5 Read More »
We are continuing in our discussion of the halachos of tznius for a girl. The Biur Halacha, at the beginning of siman 75, writes that although we have a general rule that a tefach or more of a woman which is uncovered is considered ervah for a davar shebikdusha (learning, davening, brachos, etc.), it
1309 – Chinuch Katanim – (Klal 66) – Chinuch for Tznius 48 – Exposure 4; Lo Silbash Read More »
We are discussing the halachos of tznius for a girl. We left off discussing the age at which the issur ervah applies to a girl. The Mishnah Berurah holds it begins at age three, while the Chazon Ish holds it begins around age six or seven. Yesterday, we learned how this machlokes applies to learning,
1308 – Chinuch Katanim – (Klal 66) – Chinuch for Tznius 47 – Chinuch for Tznius 2 Read More »
We are continuing in Klal 66 which discusses the halachos of chinuch. Today, we will clarify the halachos of tznius vis a vis a katan, which the Chayei Adam does not discuss. There are two issues regarding tznius as it applies to a girl. First, there are halachos of ervah, which, when present, create
We are beginning siman 16, which discusses the halachos of aveilus for a katan. There is a halachic machlokes where aveilus applies to a katan; meaning, whether we train a child in the concept of aveilus. The psak of the Chayei Adam is that there is no chiyuv chinuch for aveilus, because it is generally
1306 – Chinuch Katanim – (Klal 66 Siman 16-17) – Aveilus 45 – Metziah Read More »
We have finished siman 14, and will touch on a few additional points regarding chinuch. The Shulchan Aruch discusses the halachos of a katan in siman 343. In seif katan 3, the Mishnah Berurah writes that if a parent hears their child speaking lashon hara, they should stop the children. Similarly, if the parents hear
We are beginning siman 13, where the Chayei Adam discusses a child who is nursing. The scenario of the Chayei Adam is generally not applicable anymore, but we can still learn from the guidelines he sets down A child may nurse until 24 months, even if the child stopped at some point during that period.
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We are continuing in siman 12, where the Chayei Adam discusses the age at which a katan’s neder will be binding mideoraysa. We learned that this age is age 12 for a boy, and age 11 for a girl. Before these ages, even if the katan understands their words, it does not take effect. The
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We are beginning siman 12. The Chayei Adam introduces the concept of onas nedarim, the age of nedarim. Although the general halachic age of maturity for a boy is 13, and for a girl is 12; for nedarim, the age of maturity for a boy is 12, and for a girl is 11. Thus, if
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We are continuing in siman 11, where the Chayei Adam wrote that once a child has reached 11 years of age, they should fast the entirety of Yom Kippur (unless they are weak). In siman 516:sk 9, the Mishnah Berurah points out that nowadays, we dont not have our children fast until they are bar
